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“The Accidental Dominatrix” unveils the layers of writer Emme Witt-Eden’s journey to become a professional dominatrix. Delving into the behind-the-scenes moments of her early days as a pro-domme, Witt-Eden exposes the profound identity transformation she underwent, thanks to this profession. The purpose of this newsletter is to illustrate how this experience became a catalyst for her own sexual liberation, challenging prevailing misconceptions associated with sex work and BDSM. Subscribe and never miss an update. Every new edition of the newsletter goes directly to your inbox.

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A memoir about the journey of a writer to become a dominatrix. This newsletter exposes the profound identity transformation that Emme Witt-Eden underwent as a result of this job, while also showing how it led to her own sexual liberation.


Journalist and essay writer. Erotic experimentalist. Sex and BDSM expert. Author of the memoir, "Confessions of a Middle-Aged F-Girl," on sale now. As seen in Vice, Cosmo, Women's Health, The Daily Dot, Insider, MetroUK, Giddy, and more.